I’m fed up. If you follow this blog at all, you’ll know that this is not my usual tone and it takes severe anger to get me like this. What I have to say today is going to be controversial, and frankly… I don’t care. It needs to be said, and it is long overdue. If you need to move along to a different blog because you cannot handle this, I understand. Hopefully, I don’t have to be this BLUNT the next time I get behind the keyboard.
I just left a friend’s house. She just turned 20. Today. For her 20th birthday, her father unplugged the battery from her truck so that she couldn’t go anywhere. Meanwhile, they’ve gone out of town for the week. They had absolutely no regard as to whether she’d be able to leave her house in the event of an emergency. (She had no idea what was wrong with her truck, nor how to repair it… that’s why she called me.) She nearly missed a party that her friends had planned for her because of what her dad did. (He just sent her a text telling her that he unhooked the battery because he figured she’d be too stupid to figure out how to fix it.)
I’ve received calls from her so many times before because of her father. He’s abusive. She’s had her shoulder nearly dislocated and her knee injured because of his abuse. In addition to the physical abuse that she’s endured, there also comes the mental abuse. Time and time again, she has shown me text messages from her father where he’s called her names, and referred to her as a “sorry sack of sh__.”
Here’s the kicker… he’s in church every Sunday. He lifts his hands, and sings Holy Holy Holy, but treats his daughter like trash when he’s home. He puts on the pretty face and nice suit at church, but at home acts like a pagan. Her mom defends him, and does absolutely nothing to comfort her tormented daughter.
Matthew 23:25-26 (NLT)
25 “What sorrow awaits you teachers of religious law and you Pharisees. Hypocrites! For you are so careful to clean the outside of the cup and the dish, but inside you are filthy—full of greed and self-indulgence! 26 You blind Pharisee! First wash the inside of the cup and the dish, and then the outside will become clean, too.
James 3:10-12 (NIV)
10 Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this should not be. 11 Can both fresh water and salt water flow from the same spring? 12 My brothers and sisters, can a fig tree bear olives, or a grapevine bear figs? Neither can a salt spring produce fresh water.
The truth about who you really are is defined not when you’re in public, but behind closed doors. You are detrimental to heaven with your activities.
Matthew 23:13 (NLT)
13 “What sorrow awaits you teachers of religious law and you Pharisees. Hypocrites! For you shut the door of the Kingdom of Heaven in people’s faces. You won’t go in yourselves, and you don’t let others enter either.
If you’re this way, scriptures tells us that you are truly not a Christian… and I am tired of you running my Savior’s name through the dirt. You’re a hypocrite, and unless you repent of your sins, scripture says you will not enter the kingdom of Heaven.
Matthew 24:51 (NLT)
51 and he will cut the servant to pieces and assign him a place with the hypocrites. In that place there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.
Weeping and gnashing of teeth occurs in Hell, there are no tears in heaven. Or consider the Parable of the Wedding Feast, where the King finds someone at the party not clothed in proper wedding garments.
Matthew 22:12-13 (NLT)
12 ‘Friend,’ he asked, ‘how is it that you are here without wedding clothes?’ But the man had no reply. 13 Then the king said to his aides, ‘Bind his hands and feet and throw him into the outer darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.’
Hypocrites will not be able to crash God’s Wedding Feast, they must be properly clothed in a true righteousness that comes only from Christ via obedience to His commandments.
If we live in hypocrisy yet call ourselves a Christian our joy of Christ will be short lived. Hypocrites are the seed that falls on the rocky soil, it never takes root and the heat of the day comes and destroys the seedling.
Do you really know Christ? Do you spend quality time with Him, intimately praying and seeking His counsel? This cannot be done in Church in all practicality but is best done in quiet time we carve out and give to God. It won’t matter on the last day if our social network thinks we were a holy person and prayed a lot; it will only matter if God says we knew Him and met His qualifications to enter His Kingdom.
I wish I could say that this is an isolated incident, but unfortunately… it is not. I have another friend who is forced to endure something quite similar from parents who also call themselves Christians. It’s absolutely horrible. I understand that children must be submissive to their parents, but I also understand that Godly parents are to have responsibilities to their children as well.
Ephesians 6:2-4 (NLT)
2 “Honor your father and mother.” This is the first commandment with a promise: 3 If you honor your father and mother, “things will go well for you, and you will have a long life on the earth.”[a]
4 Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger by the way you treat them. Rather, bring them up with the discipline and instruction that comes from the Lord.
If you fall into this category, I beg of you…
- DON’T CALL YOURSELF A CHRISTIAN!
- GET RIGHT WITH GOD… REPENT OF YOUR SINS, AND TURN FROM YOUR WICKED WAYS
- THEN, AND ONLY THEN… CAN YOU CALL YOURSELF A CHRISTIAN!
Call yourself a heathen or a pagan… but stop running my Savior’s name in the dirt. You’re disgusting, and you make me sick… and according to SCRIPTURE, you’re making GOD sick, too.
Revelation 3:15-16 (NLT)
15 “I know all the things you do, that you are neither hot nor cold. I wish that you were one or the other!16 But since you are like lukewarm water, neither hot nor cold, I will spit you out of my mouth!
Now, if you want to get upset with someone, you need to choose someone else besides me, because all I’ve done is shared scripture with you. No opinion, just the facts and The Word. Just an idea, why don’t you get upset with YOURSELF. That’s the first step on your road to recovery. Get right with God!
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